Our Services

Inclusive, personal, and crafted with care — serving Maryland, DC, and Virginia

At She Presides, every ceremony is grounded in warmth, intention, and authenticity. As an ordained deacon in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA), I bring pastoral presence, deep listening, and a deep respect for all expressions of love — LGBTQIA+, interfaith, secular, spiritual, and non-traditional.

Whether you need a simple legal signing or a fully bespoke ceremony, your experience will be guided with care, professionalism, and attention to detail.

Simply Ceremonial

$275 — Weekdays

$400 — Weekends

A short, meaningful ceremony — simple, warm, and intentional.

Includes:

  • 10–15 minute ceremony

  • Choice of thoughtfully written scripts

  • Light personalization

  • One coordination call

  • Marriage license signing & filing

  • Travel within 20 miles

Ideal for elopements and couples seeking a simple but heartfelt experience.

Packaged with Love

$525
A personalized ceremony that reflects your story with care and intention.

Includes:

  • 15–25 minute personalized ceremony

  • One 45-minute consultation

  • Vow guidance and light customization

  • One script revision

  • Unlimited email support

  • Marriage license signing & filing

  • Travel within 30 miles

Perfect for couples who want a balance of personalization and simplicity.

Exquisitely Yours

$875
A fully custom, deeply personal ceremony experience.

Includes:

  • Fully custom-written ceremony

  • Two in-depth consultations

  • Full vow-writing support

  • Up to 3 revisions

  • Rehearsal attendance

  • Planner/vendor coordination

  • Unlimited communication

  • Marriage license signing & filing

  • Travel within 40 miles

Ideal for larger weddings, multi-faith ceremonies, and couples who want a deeply meaningful and collaborative experience.

License Signing Only

$225 — Weekdays (Mon–Thu)

$300 — Weekends (Fri–Sun)

Includes:

  • Legal marriage license signing

  • Completion and filing of all required documents

  • Quick 10-minute appointment

  • 1–2 witnesses welcome

  • Travel within 10 miles

Perfect for courthouse-style weddings, destination weddings, or private celebrations.

Preparing for Life Together

Meaningful conversations and practical tools for your marriage.

Prepare for your marriage as thoughtfully as your wedding.

Your wedding celebrates your love and the life you’re building together. Relationship coaching offers time to nurture that foundation—to explore your hopes, talk through expectations, and develop practical tools for communication, connection, and navigating disagreements.

I’m pleased to partner with Emily Griffin, MSW, LICSW, LCSW-C, of Happy Parents, Happy Babies, to offer a warm, affirming coaching experience. Emily helps couples explore their shared values, boundaries with extended family, and decisions about their future—including whether children are part of that vision.

Like your ceremony, your preparation for marriage should honor who you are. Couples of all genders, identities, faiths, and family structures are welcome.

Relationship coaching is an optional service available alongside any She Presides ceremony package. Sessions are arranged and billed separately through Emily.

A little extra love

Book your ceremony with She Presides and a premarital coaching package with Emily Griffin, and receive 10% off your She Presides service.

Additional Extras

$50

Additional travel between 30-60 miles round trip

Interested in something you don’t see here? Just ask!

$100

Additional travel between 60-100 miles round trip

Premarital coaching referrals given upon request.

Offered in partnership with Emily Griffin, LCSW

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